To make the thandai mix, grind all the ingredients listed under "thandai powder" to a fine powder, in a mixer-grinder
This is much more than what you would need for this kheer recipe. However, you can store the remaining in an air tight jar. But make sure to use it within a month's time
To make the kheer, heat the ghee/coconut oil, until in melts and then add the rice
Stir and cook for couple minutes and then add the coconut milk. Simmer over medium low heat
Keep stirring and cooking until the rice grains completely soften
Then add the thandai mix and the jaggery. Cook for 5-7 minutes more or until the jaggery completely mixes with the kheer and then remove from flame
Refrigerate the rice pudding (after it comes to room temperature) for at least 30 minutes before serving
Serve the thandai kheer in coconut milk, garnished with nuts, dried rose petals and saffron strands. Enjoy!