In a thick bottomed sauce pan, heat the ghee and when it melts, sauté the cashews, almonds, raisins and charoli seeds for 2-3 minutes. Remove and set aside
Heat the remaining ghee and sauté the dates for couple minutes. Remove and set aside
Now, set the milk boil, once it comes to a roll boil, stir, lower the flame and keep cooking until it starts to thicken and reduces to half it's quantity. Stir in the saffron and the roasted sevaiyan (vermicelli). Mix well and once they plump up, tip in the dates and nuts
Mix well and cook on medium low flame for another 5-7 minutes. Turn the flame off, add the jaggery and cardamom powder, mix, cover and let it come to room temperature. Thereafter refrigerate for 30 minutes, at least
Serve your delicious, chilled sheer khurmagarnished with some more chopped nuts. Enjoy!
Notes
To roast the vermicelli or sevaiyan, heat a tablespoon of ghee, once it melts, fry them until golden brown in color
You can also serve the sheer khurma at room temperature, but tastes best chilled
You could increase or decrease the amount of jaggery in the recipe, as per taste
The jaggery is added after turning the heat off, so as to prevent the milk from splitting. Jaggery sometimes contains impurities that causes the milk to split